I am so blessed to have these friends,
With whom I've grown so close.
Because to me they are the "Most"!
So to you, my friends, I would like to say,
Thank you for being a part,
Of all my daily contacts,
This comes right from my heart.
In my childhood years, i have got Zheng ying as my playmate and i hope ya doing fine in Aussie. She's just like my big sis and always show concern for me. Guiding me during the young and innocent time. Although we are miles apart, in so many ways, my heart feels so close to you.
In my kindergarden years, i am blessed with two good friends, Lily & Qiqi. I am so thankful to be able to reunite with Lily last year. Thou, i still haven't find out where Qiqi is, but i still wish u best endeavour in life.
Pammie and Mel, my slack mates, one dirty elmo and obnoxious bitch tat she claims to be one. They are just like my homies, can do anythin or just nothin with me. Lyn, she is like my boss, don't know why but i just like hanging out with her. Her fav habit is tease me till i go speechless just the biggest meanie of all. Natalie (my squash mate, my soul mate, my one and only, my girl, my star) has been there, showed me the way to God and be loved by God. Giving me tat lovely smile and share my happiness when i achieved my wants, or just being there when i feel like the biggest loser in the world. Happy now? It is like the longest thing i have ever write about you?
In poly years, i striked lottery and won two sweets. the ever sweet char and the ever noisy and cranky chel. Char who is alwaes being so nice and sweet to us, alwaes being teased by us especially tat chel lam bear bear. Chel is such a loudspeaker and full of unstoppable energy (don't know where she got it from) but well, thats what i like about her and i start to believe tat i click with Aquarius. I love amb so much just becos i got to know u sweets from there. I am so thankful that i found friendship in both of you despite being in diff course and diff 'clicks'. and we have got jedi powers. oh.. i have got a chubby low chubby by her lovely klassmates, Wan Ching, such a disaster when the both of us are recharged and ready for for chaos. The times when we would just fight like lil children, bully each other like nobody's business. Times when i would feel like crap when u are down and i can't bear it with u.
God bless you all is my prayer today,
I'm honored to call you "friend",
I pray the Lord will keep you safe,
Until we write again.
Blessed are You, loving Father,
For all your gifts to us.
Blessed are You for giving me friends
Entering into a friendship opens the door for hurt and harm; a harmful friend or a toxic friendship can be one of life's hardest relationship tribulations to forgive and forget. Toxic friends often come back to haunt you for a long time.
There are nine main types of toxic friends--those people whose friendship hurts you eventually. Knowing the categories of toxic friends helps you avoid them. Unfortunately, though, becoming friends is risky and there is never a guarantee you will not be hurt by a toxic friend.
The User as a Toxic Friend:
This person only has friends as long as he/she can use them for some purpose or goal of his/her own. This person could be the most harmful of toxic friends.
The Betrayer as a Toxic Friend:
Nothing hurts more than a friend who betrays you. The betrayer is truly a toxic friend.
The Control Freak as a Toxic Friend:
The control freak is a friend as long as she/he is in control. The control freak often seems to be helping you. Refuse that help or break that control and find out what toxic friendship really means.
The Judge as a Toxic Friend:
Ever judgmental, ever critical, this friend can erode your self-esteem. The judge is a fault finder. You can rarely do anything completely right with this toxic friend.
The Promise Breaker as a Toxic Friend:
This person rarely does what he says he will do. If you have a date, your toxic friend is often a no-show. A general lack of dependability makes this person a toxic friend.
The Gossip as a Toxic Friend:
The gossip will eventually betray your trust and become a toxic friend. Gossips are easy to spot so beware your friendships with them.
The Self-Centered Person as a Toxic Friend:
Self-centered people can't think of you as they are too busy thinking of themselves. They make toxic friends.
The Competitor as a Toxic Friend:
The competitor is always looking to be "one up." Although some competitiveness is normal in friendships, too much competition makes a toxic friend.
Again, no can always avoid a toxic friend. But often to be forewarned is to be forearmed.
The Leaner as a Toxic Friend:
The leaner is a very needy friend who clings and may be at your doorstep every day. He/she usually wants all of your time and jealousy often enters the picture in this friendship.